The Victim test : comments.
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I think your litmus test is potentially a fine one. I've got a much easier one, which has so far proven infallible.
If someone says they have a "special right" to be heard, then I believe them and work hard to really hear them.
If their next move is to advocate for someone else being silenced, then I stop listening.
I have a feeling that our two litmus tests are going to bring up a lot of the same results. Thoughts?