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Saying "No"
So Dogs in the Vineyard has some great GMing advice, but my favorite piece is from the system, which is that, as the GM, you have to "say yes, or roll dice." The only way you can stop your players is to play fair, with the system. Nobilis does this, too, and calls it the "Monarda Law," I believe. Phrased like that, it goes like this: "Say yes, or say 'yes, but...'" In the more-fiat-than-Dogs-but-still-not-a-lot-of-it Nobilis system, it amounts to the same thing.
This is great advice.
Great advice most of the time, that is.
See, it all depends on what sort of "no."
If, in Dogs, I say "The stakes of this challenge are 'do I build a nuclear bomb,'" the GM has a responsibility to say "no, shut up" to me. Further, in Nobilis, I'm going to constantly be firing off questions about what sorts of ways I can stretch my abilities "Can I use a creation of punctuation to drop heavy iron balls on someone's head? 'cause it's like a period?" Finding the edges -- the "no"s of the system and setting -- can be an integral part of the play experience.
What is the difference between that "no" and the "no" that makes the player frustrated, angry, and feeling ineffectual?
Thoughts?
This is great advice.
Great advice most of the time, that is.
See, it all depends on what sort of "no."
If, in Dogs, I say "The stakes of this challenge are 'do I build a nuclear bomb,'" the GM has a responsibility to say "no, shut up" to me. Further, in Nobilis, I'm going to constantly be firing off questions about what sorts of ways I can stretch my abilities "Can I use a creation of punctuation to drop heavy iron balls on someone's head? 'cause it's like a period?" Finding the edges -- the "no"s of the system and setting -- can be an integral part of the play experience.
What is the difference between that "no" and the "no" that makes the player frustrated, angry, and feeling ineffectual?
Thoughts?
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Of course the GM and player aren't on the same page. Duh! Think about the lumpley principle for a second. If all the players of the game were on the same page, why would you bother playing? You wouldn't need to negotiate the SIS at all.
I'm sorry, dude, but you're just wrong about this. The language does not contain wrong words wrong enough to describe your wrongness. What I am describing *must* be a part of functional play (or maybe very stealthy dysfunctional play) because what I am describing goes on all the time in any RPG I've ever played in. And I have had a lot of fun -- not despite it, but because of it.
Yet another example: Every single Riddle of Steel game I've ever played has players constantly saying "Can I use this SA? How about this one?" If the GM said "yes" to all of those, the game would be pointless. All SAs would be firing all the time, so it would just become "what do you want to do." The GM (where, by GM, I mean "person who says no") needs to limit people so that the SAs are all that more special when they *do* happen.
I think you're on this trip right now that every word spoken by a player is a gospel contribution to the game. That's great... for improv comedy. Role-playing games have blocking rules, and have them for a reason. I think it is an important statement you are going for, but it is also a wrong one.
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--Ben
P.S. You should put your Polaris comments on my Polaris post, so I can reference them later.
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