I think we're working on the assumption that this is not a creative process involving the person critiquing the process. Under which circumstance they of course should have input on the process. But to expect the same sort of creative process to work for everyone is just stupid... exactly as if you were saying everyone ought to be using the missionary position all the time regardless of their preferences in the matter.

And sex is only unlikely to produce anything qualitatively judgeable by the community if you use protection and no one's in hearing distance.